A whole bunch of people I know have recently either gotten engaged or married or preggers.. Their pictures and invitations are all over Facebook! And I couldn't help but imagine what it would be like when my time finally comes.
I don't like anything too grande. I would like it to be just among family and the friends who have been such a huge part of my life and who have also witnessed my relationship with my very lucky future husband HAHAHAHA.
But then again, what if he wants it to be a really big celebration and decides to invite the whole barangay?
If someday I post an invitation on my blog, that's the time you'll find out if we went for the small, intimate ceremony or the grand big finals. :))
The dress..
It's all about the dress!!! Maybe it's just me, but everytime I find out about anybody getting married, its the dress that I always check out first. Forget the cheesy save-the-date videos, or the fancy invitations... Let's get real.. On your wedding day, everybody's focus is on the bride.. Who cares about what the groom is gonna wear? Hahahahaha I kid!!
But okay.. Seryoso na.. I have a lot of designers in mind.. Veejay Floresca for the gown and Mich Araullo for the entourage.
But maybe I won't be in Manila by then? So what about a dress by Vera Wang (which will probably cost me $10,000)? Or who knows, maybe I'll just buy something off the rack ala Carrie Bradshaw?
Whatever, I cannot be bothered by this at the moment. I don't wanna get too carried away.... yet.
The venue..
If you asked me about the venue 5 years ago, I would've answered the "BEACH" in a heartbeat. But now I'm not so sure anymore. I've seen a lot of beautiful garden weddings and the church weddings look pretty amazing too.. So I really don't know. I haven't put much thought into this yet.
So far, it looks like I have NO IDEA what my dream wedding is gonna be like.
But no matter how much I try to deny it.. the truth is, my dream wedding has been playing over and over in my head for a few years now.
I might not be sure of the venue, or how many guests I'll be inviting, or which designer will create my super amazing dress, but there are a few important details that I am 100% sure of.
Someday, when its finally my turn to walk down the aisle..
It's going to be like its just me and him in that room..
We're going to feel like we can't wait to start a new chapter in our lives together and there will be no feeling of pressure because "we've been together for too long" or "I need to have babies now!!"... It'll all be because
"I love you so much and we worked SO hard for this moment to arrive and I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with you".
That wedding will be like a special prize we won for holding on to each other through thick and thin.
I could care less of the venue, the guests or the dress..
On my dream wedding, I want the guy who loves me to be there and promise me that even if we get old and wrinkly, every single day with him will still feel like we just got married.
BAM!!!!!
That's my dream wedding.
And if it's not too much to ask, Lord please give us enough money to spend our honeymoon in Paris.
:D